Men, whether successful or not, don’t seem to worry about becoming
destitute in their old age, invisible, unloved, roaming the streets,
scrounging in garbage cans for food. But irrational as it may seem, successful women also suffer from bag lady fears.
Katie Couric, Gloria Steinem and Lily Tomlin admit to sharing this fear
of becoming a bag lady. So did 48 percent of the 1,938 high earning women
polled by Allianz Life Insurance in a 2006 poll. A stunning 90 percent
of these high earners admitted to feeling financially insecure.
Many married women don’t have a history of understanding or managing money. They're not used to seeing the bigger picture. They think
their husband is better at making the ‘really big’ money decisions. While they balance the household budget and decide what to buy, he handles
the investments. If the marriage ends, they don't understand what he was doing financially. Often they find themselves responsible for financial decisions he made without their knowledge or participation.
The bottom line? Wives' financial decisions revolve around money spent and gone, not invested for growth.
Bag lady fears may be emotionally irrational for financially secure Katie, Gloria
and Lily. Their fears relate to being out of control, of feeling weak
and fearful that they can't make it on their own. For them, these are childhood tapes and no longer based on reality.
But for millions of women, divorce or widowhood is the wake-up call that they have to start thinking differently about money. Four in 10 marriages end before the 30th wedding anniversary. Only 16%
of married women have a financial “Plan B” in case of divorce. The
average age a woman is widowed is 56. Her average longevity is 84.
Every woman who isn't in charge of her financial life is at risk of being a bag lady if someone is planning her future. That makes the bag lady syndrome a rational fear which requires paying attention to now.
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