It’s not just first time brides who have trouble talking about money. Women who remarry have many of the same money hang-ups, especially if money was a touchy subject the first time around.
It's counterintuitive to think about widowhood or divorce when you're getting married. Few women do.
Financial intimacy is about the sharing of financial information that affects each married partner. It's central to a committed relationship. Each partner is legally entitled to the information. Financial intimacy is not about romance. It's about real life. The consequences of not knowing about your marital finances can be devastating if you are ever faced with widowhood or divorce.
Saturday, July 28, 2007
Saturday, July 21, 2007
The One True Thing about Marriage
Because this is the busiest time of the year for weddings, here’s a reality check…
There’s nothing inherently natural about marriage. It doesn’t obey any laws of physics or cosmic order. Nor is it divinely ordained, or biologically inevitable.
There’s nothing inherently natural about marriage. It doesn’t obey any laws of physics or cosmic order. Nor is it divinely ordained, or biologically inevitable.
Saturday, July 14, 2007
The Enemy of Intimacy
Is discussing money a hot button subject at your house?
Is your husband involved in deals you don’t understand?
Even worse, does he withhold financial information?
If you’re resentful or angry about the lack of financial intimacy between you, you’re probably angry about a lot of other things … your sex life, for example.
Is your husband involved in deals you don’t understand?
Even worse, does he withhold financial information?
If you’re resentful or angry about the lack of financial intimacy between you, you’re probably angry about a lot of other things … your sex life, for example.
Friday, July 6, 2007
Letter from a Young Widow
I received this email a few days ago. My heart goes out to this young widow whose world has just collapsed around her.
I am a young widow coping with grief, trying to understand finances, and raise 3 young children alone. I do not really understand and frankly have a lot of fear around the whole area of my finances.
I am a young widow coping with grief, trying to understand finances, and raise 3 young children alone. I do not really understand and frankly have a lot of fear around the whole area of my finances.
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